Planning For The Future…As A Single Woman

I’m a planner.

I love writing lists, being organised, and making sure that every aspect of an event has been thought of. This personality trait is super helpful in many situations, but frustrating in many others. Continue reading


Sensible, Sober…and Single

A friend commented the other day that at many events we go to, the night usually ends with both of us sitting around enjoying a good chat, while many others are often loudly stumbling around after having drunk too much. The most recent of these particular events was a wedding. When the bride threw her bouquet into the awaiting bachelorettes, most weren’t actually ‘single’…rather just not married to their partner. A look around the room showed that those who were drinking had a partner, but those that were sober were single. While reflecting on this event, my friend and I asked the question “are we single because we’re…BORING?!” Continue reading

Am I Doing Something Wrong?

Why am I single? Am I doing something wrong?

Am I being too funny, or not funny enough?

Am I too nice, or not nice enough?

Am I too intelligent, or not intelligent enough?

Am I too confident, or not confident enough?

Or am I giving out some sort of ‘desperate’ vibe?

All these questions and many more come to mind when I try to work out why I’m single. Why haven’t I ever been asked out on a date?…am I rude to men? do I put up some sort of emotional wall? does anyone even find me attractive? or do I walk around with a flashing neon sign above my head that reads hurry up and date me before I get wrinkles?!! Continue reading

I have WAY Too Many Funny Encounters With Men

I don’t know about you, but I have collected way too many funny stories about my often awkward encounters with the male kind! Some of these might warrant longer blog posts in the future, but over the years, these stories have provided my family and friends with many quality laughs.

Here is a small selection of my favourites (Each one features a different man by the way): Continue reading